Wind and the Cape is like expecting a milkshake without ice cream. As all windy regions of the world, there are often fabulous wind-less moments and without taking anything away from the fabulous coast line, Bloubergstrand (wind or no wind) in my opinion is the most picturesque, with fabulous restaurants and bars and a very clean, safe environment - a feature that is absent at most of the other beach towns mentioned.
Enjoy beautiful sundown or morning walks staying at Pinard on Sea - right on the Rocks - and dine next door or at any of the many fabulous seafood restaurants with the most spectacular view of Table Mountain anywhere.